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Have you meet someone who seems everything is wrong with their lives? Or a magnet of bad lucks? Your car broke down on a highway, "oh this is going to be a bad day", you lost your wallet "it's a sign of worst is yet to come". A self fulfilling prophecy indeed! We feel burden as we get through the day.

We can design our day on how we want it to be. We have a choice on how we want to live our life.

"I'm not good enough", "I wish I were.."  and the famous "If only.." 

The battle starts in our head. It's up to the voices we choose to listen, from the child chair or the adult version of ourselves.  #designyourlife #masteryourhabits #dreambig

Does it makes you a bad person when you are gay? When your only fault is having too much XY chromosomes in your body and you have not hurt a single soul but people condemn you. It's the same story in the bible about a woman who bled for years and people stoned her for she was unclean as defined by them. 
It's a different story when you are gay and you committed crimes. 

I saw the movie of Donatella Versace and what struck me was the story of the serial killer, Andrew Cunanan. HURT people hurt people. The message that he was trying to say to the world is - accept me.  At the age of 19, his religious mother found out that he was gay but the family never acknowledged it. And he became a prolific liar in order to fit in. 
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Most religious argument is God only created a man and a woman, there's no gay and lesbians. We have to remember that we are bound by sin. We are all sinners, born with defects. It's not the perfect image that God wants us to be. As humans, we have to see each other beyond our image. 
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Our childhood development up to adolescence phase are crucial on how we are showing to the world today as healthy adults. #healingtheinnerchild

Every new year, we work on our resolutions. We spend our time decluttering, making all things new, leaving the past behind. Those are great to start with but how many of those list we truly consistently do that last up to a month? Are there any effective ways to make things happen? #lifegoals