Today's post was inspired by a woman on Youtube. She wanted to be heard and understood. She's coming from a place of "all I want is to build a family".  It was heartbreaking for me to see her crying, putting herself out there and narrating her challenges on dating and being single in her 30s. I hear YOU. #trustthetimingofyourlife

Do you know what you're looking for? Do you know what you want? When you are with a crowd of strangers, can you tell which among are your "people"? Can you trust yourself knowing that these people are not good for you? Do you have a healthy sense of self worth? Do you see the red flags and go with your judgment? Or do the opposite and let people manipulate you, abuse you and use you? #lifetransformation #declutteryourlife
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The same songs with the same old rhymes
Tell me to shake it off and swing from the lights
But I can’t help but drive away from all the mess you made
You sent this hurricane now it won’t go away
Loving you is too hard, all I do is not enough, left me hurt, I get burnt
​I cannot be loving you...

Do you find it hard to answer the question "what do you want?" 
"I don't know". 

I don't know what I want, I don't know what I want to be, what I want to have. So I let people decide for me on what I should have, should want and what I should need. 

When you don't know your identity, you'll lose yourself in the crowd. You can be influenced by great and small minds. Take a pick when you are confused, it will lead you to a detours and long routes. And you will find yourself exhausting, chasing for things, questioning yourself "what should I become?" #selfworth #whatdoyouwant

We all do have bad days, bad week or just simply not in the mood for anything. I had those down times, we all do. There were times that I feel empty, hallow, lonely or I think I'm not being productive as the days go by. We procrastinate and beating ourselves. "How can you be lazy at this time?" or the opposite "I'm just waiting for an inspiration right now" but I'm wasting away. Feeling like a failure? Worthless?

Can you trust the timing of your life right now when you are at your lowest? #selflove #iamworthy