Why do we worry so much about dating when we are already settled? Do we get pressured by the question "why are you still single?" when it's our choice. I used to have a hard time explaining it but now I simply say "it's my choice". - A very strong affirmative word "I've made my decision, I am sure that it's what I want".
We don't need to explain to everyone what makes us happy . We owe it to ourselves to make decisions wisely, to choose the things that matters to us the most. Humans has different needs and some, we call it priorities, the most valuable thing in our lives.
Are you still stressed out being single? This one's for you.
Humans spend most of our time looking for happiness, for satisfaction, for things that are fulfilling to us. Do we find joy in all these things? When I ask you, how do you see the world? How can you describe the community you live in? Do you like what you see? Are you satisfied with what you have right now?
We may all have the list of things that we want to have, we want to do but what's keeping us from achieving those things?
When you reset your life, when you start all over again, you will promise to yourself that you will have it no matter what it takes especially if you hit the rock bottom. But when you surpassed the phase of rock bottom, we forget the why power, we forget the promises we made to ourselves and sabotage our goals of resetting or starting all over again. We come back to what is comfortable and convenience to us. #limitingbeliefs
They said memories are bittersweet. We can't say "I only had happy memories all throughout my life" neither "I only had sadness recollections". We also do have memories that we're trying to bury deep down like it never happened. When we try so hard to forget, it doesn't go away. We experience flashbacks or we get paralyze, freeze on a familiar spot or scenario. Have you experience these things? It's called Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). #ptsdawareness
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