Don't waste your time on things that doesn't serve you.
Don't waste your time explaining to people that doesn't hear you, understand you.
Don't waste your time asking the wrong person to stay.
Don't waste your time begging for love, attention and commitment.
Don't waste your time on pleasing people that are committed to criticize you no matter how good or bad you've done.
Don't waste your time on relationships that bring out the worst in you than making you feel good all the time.
Don't abandon yourself just to please those wrong ones around you.
Free yourself from the Maybes...I wish I was.... and If onlys.
Have you been in situations where people misunderstand you for your actions? Judge you on your decisions or criticize you for something that you said? And you tried to explain, behave your best self, and please them so they can appreciate you for who you are?? Stop it there right now.
Most of us were in situations where our partner, family and we call them our people say things like "there must be something wrong with you", "why do you need to be so angry on such trivial matters?", "why do you have to do that, what kind of person are you?" - And we felt ignored, invalidated then we begin to question ourselves - "maybe they were right, I guess there's really something wrong with me."
Honey!! Definitely, there is something wrong with you! Do you know what is it? You are in the wrong time, with the wrong person, with the wrong place right now. We encounter different people, unfortunately as the internet is getting better, the people are getting dumber. (sarcastic as it is). High emotional intelligent people are rare nowadays versus low level of emotional quotient. Dating Gurus and other Coaching Experts use the term "unavailable men, unavailable women", it's also the same with having a low level of emotional intelligence. It's hard for them to empathize with you, to understand your needs and accept your point of view. - "if only you put yourself in my shoes"- they will never get that.
Watch this dating guru, he's so funny and he pointed out - that's why dreamers, high achievers, passionate people don't mix with people with no ambitions at all. "Talented people hang out with talentend people, ambitious people hang out with ambitious people, you don't see a homeless person hanging out with a billionaire, wanna know why? Because they don't have anything in common. We're getting too old to not have substance, to have nothing to offer. " --- SO TRUE!!
Get a new environment, a new circle of friends, your new people who are in sync with you. And you will always hear the words "I FEEL YOU".
I feel you that you are upset, I will be more disappointed if it was me.
I feel you that you are angry, you have the right to be.
I feel your hurt. I feel your pain.
-- These are types of people that we want to be with if we want to connect emotionally deeper and be the best version of ourseleves around them.
TIME is all we have in this world and we feel abundant when we use it on people and things that makes us happy.
Advocate of authentic self. Lover of life. Passionate on understanding humans. Serving with a purpose, one day at a time.