She's strong on the outside, soft in the inside. She's the modern feminine woman with the balance of wits and sound judgment. She's in everyone of us.
Do they tell you that you are difficult? Do you feel like no one understands you?
While women in your age are married and have kids, you are left alone pursuing your career and you're always wondering "what's wrong with me?" #limitingbeliefs
What's wrong with me? -- When all I want is the best for myself.
I heard a million times those questions about my life's choices and I can't explain to them the reasons why.
My priorities in life is different than other people. Do you feel the same way too? While others are busy looking for love, dating, swiping left and right on their phones, I am here working.. thinking...thinking about a lot of things that I need to do before I get 40. When I was 25, I told myself that I still have 5 years before I reached 30 to build my empire hahaha! Then I hit 30, I was panicking that I small accomplishments and lots of things to do. -- Yes, what's wrong with you?? Someone asked me why I'm working hard if I'm not yet married or don't have kids? I didn't know how to respond. I mumbled something like "getting married is not my goal, the business is my goal".
Here I am now, in this time and space where I got everything I wished when I was in my 20s but I'm not yet satisfied with these "achievements". There's more to do.
There's more to do when it comes to taking care of yourself, not just physically but spiritually and financially.
Kudos to those people who are brave enough to get married or enter any kinds of relationship.
I just don't want to date ANYONE or have this idea of MARRIAGE when I know that I have a huge responsbility to myself first. I had a long list of wrong choices in life and I learned a lot. I don't want to repeat the negative patterns that will affect my well being. "I just wanted to be happy" - When we say we want to be HAPPY, what does it looks like? For others it could be finding the one, marriage and kids but for other people it's all about their personal growth.
WE, women has to know how to take care of ourselves, from the men we choose to date, the kind of life we want to have and the people that we want to be surrounded with.
Especially in this period of pandemic, we have to become a victor conscious. We have to make decisions not out of fear, lonelines, scarcity but based on the best version of ourselves.
If the world is telling you - why you are alone, why you are doing these things, why you are so difficult? - you don't need to give them an answer. The life that we make is our message to the world. So stay focus and grounded. When you get lost and nd tired, stop, rest, cry it out.. then remember why you keep doing the things you love. Go back to your center and claim your power. No one can take care of you but yourself.
Advocate of authentic self. Lover of life. Passionate on understanding humans. Serving with a purpose, one day at a time.